In a world where everyone carries a camera in their pocket, it can feel like privacy is a relic of the past. The internet is stuffed with content filmed or photographed in public and private spaces, and, if it’s entertaining or contentious enough, it can go viral in the blink of an eye, often without the subject’s consent.
One woman was livid when, after finishing her gym workout, a teen snapped a pic of her butt. When she told the kid to delete the image, he just laughed at her, so she snatched his phone away from him. Now she’s asking an online community if she overreacted.
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Having your privacy invaded is the worst, but this woman was determined to fight back when it happened to her at her local gym
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After finishing her workout, she was on her way to the changing rooms when a teen snapped a pic of her butt in front of his friends
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Incensed, she told the teen to delete the pic immediately, but he refused, saying it was “just a joke,” so she snatched his phone out of his hand and did it herself
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She wasted no time reporting the incident to the front desk, but the teen’s mother accused her of “manhandling” her son and invading his privacy
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In the end, the gym banned the teen and his friends for six months, but after talking to her husband, the woman is wondering if she overreacted
It was just another gym day for 32-year-old OP, until it turned ugly. After finishing her workout, she headed into the women’s locker room, only to notice a group of teen boys loitering outside it. As she walked past, one of the kids snapped a photo… of her butt, laughing like it was the funniest thing he’d managed to do all day.
Instead of ignoring it, OP reacted instantly. Marching up to the teens, she grabbed the kid’s phone and demanded he delete the photo. The teen brushed it off as “just a joke,” but OP wasn’t about to let it go. She went straight to the front desk, determined to report the affront rather than silently endure humiliation.
The offending teen’s mom was called, but instead of apologizing, she turned defensive. She accused OP of “manhandling” her son and “violating his privacy.” Even when gym staff checked the security footage, confirming the kid took the photo, the mom doubled down. Things escalated fast, threats flew from both sides, and the police were eventually called in to intervene.
At the end of the day, the teen and his friends were banned from the gym for six months, but OP left feeling rattled and confused, especially after her husband said she might have overreacted. Now she’s turned to netizens to ask whether or not she handled the situation like a jerk.
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From what OP tells us in her post, her privacy was most definitely violated. She had every right to react. Her story is just one of many emerging from gyms, but how unsafe have these spaces become? We went looking for answers.
While you might already have heard of the term “gymtimidation,” according to the Levity website, the newest word on the workout block is “gymxiety” – the fear or stress people feel when working out in public.
Levity’s latest survey reveals that nearly 1 in 5 gym-goers (17%) have skipped workouts or quit the gym due to fear of being filmed without consent, 3 in 4 gym-goers say fitness influencers have made gym culture worse, and almost 1 in 4 women (23%) have been harassed or approached inappropriately at the gym.
According to the BBC, a quick look on social media reveals just how common #gymweirdo behavior is. A recent survey of women in the US by website FitRated suggests up to 7 in 10 women have had an experience at the gym that made them feel uncomfortable.
In her article for NASM, Kinsey Cave suggests tips for overcoming gymxiety. Some include knowing before you go (checking out the gym before you join), deep breathing (an effective tool to manage anxiety), and using the buddy system (never working out alone).
While OP managed to see the teens punished, her experience suggests that personal privacy could be losing ground to a toxic gym culture wrecking workouts across the world.
What would you have done if you’d found yourself in OP’s shoes? Do you think she overreacted, or did the teens get what was coming to them? Share your opinion in the comments!
In the comments, readers agreed the woman had every right to be irked, and defended her decision to react the way she did
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