It’s been said that advice is only worth what you pay for it, and it’s also true that nothing comes for free. When asking for tips on a particular situation, then, it’s a good idea to find someone who has gone through it before and can hence speak from experience.
With this in mind, X user Sahil Bloom had a smart idea. In the month leading up to his 32nd birthday, he reached out to senior citizens to ask them for one piece of advice they’d give to their 32-year-old selves. Bloom then took to X to list the top 40 pearls of wisdom he received.
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#1
Allow your kids to fail. You will hate it, but it’s so important.
Image source: SahilBloom, Luis Alberto Barrera Diaz
#2
If something has a minor issue, repair it. Minor issues become major issues over time. Applies equally to love, friendships, health, and home.
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#3
Now and then, break out the fancy china and drink the good wine for no reason at all.
Image source: SahilBloom, Melike Benli
#4
Do one good deed every single day, but never tell anyone about it.
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#5
Find the things that make your eyes light up. Do more of those.
Image source: SahilBloom, Vladimir Kudinov
#6
It doesn’t have to be perfect for it to be wonderful.
Image source: SahilBloom, cottonbro studio
#7
Tell your partner you love them every night before falling asleep. Someday you’ll find the other side of the bed empty and wish you could.
Image source: SahilBloom, Yan Krukau
#8
Always remind yourself that your track record for making it through your bad days is perfect.
Image source: SahilBloom, Alex Green
#9
Treat your body like a house you have to live in for another 70 years.
Image source: SahilBloom, Marcus Aurelius
#10
Give everybody a second chance, but never a third.
Image source: SahilBloom, teksomolika
#11
There’s nothing wrong with shedding old relationships as you grow and change.
Image source: SahilBloom, Pixabay
#12
Stubborn pride is the downfall of many men and women. Learn to forget the slight hurts and avoid grudges.
Image source: SahilBloom, Stanley Morales
#13
Stop trying to change people who don’t want to be changed.
Image source: SahilBloom, Liza Summer
#14
Time doesn’t heal anything when it comes to relationships. Don’t delay difficult conversations.
Image source: SahilBloom, Alena Darmel
#15
Don’t fear sadness, as it tends to sit right next to love.
Image source: SahilBloom, Lukas Rychvalsky
#16
Do one thing that challenges your mind every single day. A crossword puzzle, math problem, anything. Daily “exercise” will keep your mind sharp for the long haul.
Image source: SahilBloom, Karolina Kaboompics
#17
Never let a good friendship atrophy. Send the text, make the call, plan the trip. Good friendships must be treasured.
Image source: SahilBloom, Pixabay
#18
If your kid wants to dance in line at the store, join them.
Image source: SahilBloom, Barbara Olsen
#19
The most damning lie you can tell is the lie you tell to yourself.
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#20
If there’s something bothering you, ask yourself whether it will matter in one month. If not, let it go right now.
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#21
Looking presentable is a matter of self-respect.
Image source: SahilBloom, lucas souza
#22
Smile and say good morning to strangers on the street.
Image source: SahilBloom, Matheus Ferrero
#23
You may occasionally disappoint others, but make sure to never disappoint yourself.
Image source: SahilBloom, Liza Summer
#24
Never raise your voice, except for at a ballgame.
Image source: SahilBloom, Andrea Piacquadio
#25
Getting old is no picnic, but it’s much better than the alternative.
Image source: SahilBloom, Brett Sayles
#26
If it’s raining on a warm summer evening, go outside and dance in it.
Image source: SahilBloom, Muhamad Lutfi
#27
No amount of money is ever worth trading for your peace of mind.
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#28
When you meet someone, look them in the eye, give a firm handshake, and call them by their name.
Image source: SahilBloom, katemangostar
#29
When in doubt, love. We can always use more love.
Image source: SahilBloom, Katie Salerno
#30
Travel as much as you can. Collect one token from every trip to remember it by.
Image source: SahilBloom, Porapak Apichodilok
#31
If something isn’t working and your gut tells you to try harder, first ask whether there’s just an easier way to do it.
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#32
Laugh loudly and unapologetically whenever you feel like it.
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#33
The “good old days” are always happening right now.
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#34
Taking no risk is the biggest risk you can take. Regret from inaction is always more painful than regret from action.
Image source: SahilBloom, Jahoo Clouseau
#35
If you’re going to lose a fight, make sure the other person thinks twice before fighting you again.
Image source: SahilBloom, fxquadro
#36
No one has ever argued their way to happiness.
Image source: SahilBloom, Tim Samuel
#37
Dance at weddings until your feet are sore.
Image source: SahilBloom, Danik Prihodko
#38
Whenever you hug someone, make sure they are the one to let go first.
Image source: SahilBloom, cottonbro studio
#39
You may win the argument, but if you lose the friend, what was the point?
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#40
When you’re feeling down, smile at yourself in the mirror for a full minute.
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