The sun is finally out (well, mostly, if you ignore the surprise rain showers), and so are the grills. Nothing says summer quite like the sizzle of a BBQ and the smell of something delicious on the grill. But for people with dietary restrictions, that fun can turn into frustration real fast.
Take this story, for example: A woman with specific food intolerances brought her own chicken and veggies to her in-laws’ BBQ. But when it came time to eat, all her food was gone, eaten by the others. Left with nothing she could safely eat, she ordered takeaway. That’s when things took a turn. Her in-laws called her a “spoiled princess” for not offering to share the food she had to order for herself. Curious how it all played out? Keep reading to find out how it all went down.
Things can get tricky for people with dietary restrictions, especially during BBQ gatherings
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One woman shared how her specially prepared food was eaten by others at her in-laws’ BBQ, and they got upset when she ordered takeout
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She later provided more context about the BBQ setup and the food situation
It’s important to respect people’s dietary restrictions, as they may be tied to health, culture, or deeply held beliefs
We’ve often seen food products and restaurants highlight allergens and dietary restrictions on their packaging or menus. The reason they are so particular is that, for many, it’s not just a preference; it’s a serious health risk. For example, someone with a peanut allergy can go into anaphylactic shock if exposed to even trace amounts. It’s not about being picky; it’s literally about survival. And as more people develop food sensitivities or adopt special diets, it’s crucial that both customers and providers take this seriously.
Dietary restrictions vary widely and can be based on medical conditions, religious beliefs, or lifestyle choices. To better understand how restaurants are adapting to this, we spoke with Sumersing Patil and Pravin Kadam, co-owners of “Swaad – Assal Marathi,” a restaurant in Munich that serves authentic Maharashtrian cuisine. According to them, understanding and accommodating customer needs is a top priority.
“We are very particular when it comes to allergens,” Sumersing shares. “In India, people don’t usually have severe nut allergies or lactose intolerance, which is why so many dishes include milk, ghee, and groundnuts. But in Germany, we’ve had to adjust.” He explains that many customers are either allergic or highly sensitive to ingredients that are common in Indian cuisine. This required the restaurant to modify its preparation processes and add detailed allergen listings. They also mention every dish’s ingredients clearly to avoid confusion.
Pravin adds, “Back home, vegetarianism is mostly about religious practice. But here, we have a huge vegan clientele.” This difference, though subtle, changes how they prepare their dishes. For instance, many traditional Indian vegetarian meals include milk or cream, which are avoided by vegans. So the team ensures they can provide alternatives, such as coconut or almond milk. These small adjustments help cater to more people without compromising on taste. “We want everyone to enjoy authentic food without worrying about what’s in it,” he adds.
Dietary restrictions due to medical conditions can be dangerous if not taken seriously
They also highlight how important it is to take food allergies seriously. “Medical allergies aren’t something you can risk,” says Sumersing. “We’ve seen guests carry epinephrine pens with them just in case.” The team has taken this seriously by using separate utensils and cooking areas when needed. They also ask guests about allergies when orders are taken. For them, respecting dietary needs is part of good hospitality. After all, no one should leave a restaurant feeling anxious about what they’ve just eaten.
Gluten is another big concern. “It’s one of the primary proteins found in wheat, but it’s also hidden in sauces, soups, and even some spice blends,” says Pravin. Many customers who suffer from celiac disease or gluten intolerance report symptoms like abdominal pain, bloating, and diarrhea when exposed. That’s why their restaurant avoids using wheat-based thickeners unless necessary and always labels such dishes.
Lifestyle-based diets are another aspect they’ve had to adapt to. “We often get requests from customers on keto or low-carb diets,” shares Sumersing. “They’ll ask for substitutions, like paneer instead of rice, or skipping the naan.” The kitchen is happy to make those changes when possible. They understand that people are trying to stay consistent with their health goals, even when eating out. They’ve also noticed that diners appreciate it when their preferences are acknowledged. It helps create a more welcoming experience and builds loyalty.
One of the key takeaways the owners shared is the importance of communication. “Most issues can be avoided with a quick chat at the beginning of the meal,” says Pravin. By encouraging customers to mention allergies or preferences and by asking clarifying questions, they’ve avoided serious mishaps. Their staff is trained to listen closely and offer suggestions when needed.
Ultimately, the team at Swaad believes that taking dietary restrictions seriously is a sign of respect. “Food is emotional, it connects us to home, culture, and identity,” says Sumersing. “So if someone tells us they can’t eat something, we don’t question it, we accommodate.”
Well, their thoughts really highlight just how important it is to respect dietary restrictions, whether they’re medical, religious, or lifestyle-based. In this particular case, it seems like the woman’s in-laws didn’t fully consider her needs. But then again, some people online felt she should’ve been more cautious and kept her food separate. What do you think? Was she right to order takeout, or should she have handled it differently? Tell us your thoughts in the comments below!
Many people online felt her in-laws were inconsiderate of her dietary needs
Some also suggested she should have kept her food separate to avoid the issue
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