“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

Maintaining a household, taking care of kids, and managing a career all at once is more work than the vast majority of the population can handle. It can be a test of any marriage when partners need to renegotiate who does what. Miscommunication, resentment, stress, and misguided expectations are just some of the pitfalls people might encounter.

A man turned to the internet for advice when his wife’s new job ended up overwhelming him with housework and childcare. The comments quickly spiraled into a debate on gender norms, housekeeping standards, and how to communicate in a marriage.

Working out responsibilities in a married household require diplomacy and tact

“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

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So one man needed some advice when he realized his wife’s new job was creating a lot of work for him

“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

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“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

Image credits: jm_video (not the actual photo)

“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

OP debated some readers in the comments

“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

Overall, few really sided with the husband

“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household

Others thought he made some valid points

“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household
“Unfair Amount Of Duties”: Wife’s New Job Puts Strain On The Household