We wanted to start this post by mentioning the old hit Losing My Religion, but the famous R.E.M. song is not about faith at all, but about unrequited love. Although, on the other hand, when a person turns away from religion, turns away from God in one sense or another, this can also be called unrequited love. Or a love that no longer exists.
Such love always leaves scars on the heart, and for many people who once believed in the one or many above, they obviously needed a very good reason to turn their backs on religion. And this now-viral thread has just those people as well as their reasons.
#1
The hypocritical behavior of deeply religious people.
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#2
Lack of evidence supporting the existence of god.
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#3
When my religion had 120 billion dollars in a slush fund, owned 2% of the land in the United States, and made no effort to help the world with those funds.
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#4
It turned its back on me first. I’m gay.
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#5
Too many unanswered questions and double standards.
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#6
Had an abusive father growing up , and no matter how much I prayed god did nothing.
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#7
I grew up as a Christian and even spent a little time working in ministry. For years there were some nagging things that just didn’t add up for me. I worked for Child Protection Services for years and decided any God that has the power to prevent heinous abuse against his supposed innocent, but doesn’t, is either a sadist I don’t want to worship, or simply non existent. If this all started between God and Satan they can leave me the f**k out of it. It’s the b******t manufactured responses from Christians that were the nail on the coffin.
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#8
People put religion first over being a good human being
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#9
I come from a fairly religious family (some are very, others, not so much, some not at all).
I became an atheist at the age of six.
Why?
Simply put, I could see, even then, how badly religion is use to manipulate, control, bully, intimidate, and attack people. And I wanted NO part of that.
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#10
What they taught didn’t make any sense
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#11
when MFers got ten grand for a robe and a gold ring and a gold cup but gives out soup and bread like they doin a grand thing. Oh and [abusing] children that part pisses me off.
Churches should be charged 75% taxes
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#12
A very religious friend once told me “It’s a shame you don’t believe in god, you’re a nice person and don’t deserve to burn for eternity.” I was like…if that actually happens, your god is an a*****e and I wouldn’t worship them even if it was proven without a doubt that that god existed.
I’m open to the idea of a higher power. I don’t think it’s impossible that life was seeded on Earth by higher beings. But I’d want to see the evidence before I believed it and I certainly don’t think that millionairs who demand money from the poor are the people spreading the word of any kind of saviour.
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#13
Critical thinking.
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#14
Because it is nonsense.
A structure build by certain people to control and benefit from the not-so-sharp knives in the drawer.
If it makes these people have a reason to be “good” in the fear of an almigthy punishing them… Fine with me.
I prefer to be a good person just because, I’m fully responsible for my actions and have no need for imaginary friends to blame.
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#15
Was being lectured to “not want material things” by someone driving a Hummer
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#16
I found my own path to spirituality.
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#17
I’m autistic. So when I asked a clarifying question ( as I am want to do) at age 6 in sunday school i was told
“Dont ask questions”
And that was the end of that.
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#18
The fact there are over 4,000 religions in existence today. Which one of them is right?!
South Park did a great episode on this btw, where everyone died and I think only the Mormans went to heaven, all other religions went to hell, because turns out they were incorrect in choosing their faith. Epitomised how ridiculous religion is.
That and everything else already said in this thread.
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#19
I was forced to go to church Sunday morning, Sunday night, Wednesday night, for years. Even as a young person I started seeing the bias and hypocrisy in organized religion when a teacher was trying to tell me if you ‘didn’t know Jesus you were condemned to hell’. I asked ‘what about the Indians’? And the teacher had no answer for me. Didn’t make sense to me that a ‘loving God’ would send a whole group of people to hell because they hadn’t been exposed to the bible.
Over time the fact that churches tend to be cliquish and are always begging for money that generally gets spent to big bigger and ‘better’ churches just left a bad taste in my mouth.
I also have a hard time believing that a book that a bunch of ‘old’ guys at the time wrote based on stories told by mouth over hundreds or thousands of years is really the ‘word of God’.
I still believe in a higher power and intelligent design but I am not going to follow the teachings of organized religion. I do believe in basic ethics and standards of how to treat your fellow human beings but I don’t need some fat dude in a cheap suit telling me how to behave every Sunday morning.
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#20
The OPs question is a fallacy, that people “become” atheists for a reason. The false assumption is that faith is the natural state for all people, so there must be a triggering event (e.g. loss of a loved one, an accident, etc) that caused the individual to leave the “correct” state and enter into an aberrant state of non-belief.
In reality, belief in a god or other mystical reality is the aberrant behavior, begun by early privative culture and perpetuated by training each new generation.
I “turned my back on religion” when I went away to college and realized there was no reason at all for me to go to church on Sunday. There was no meaning in it. I shrugged and moved on with my life.
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#21
Mental gymnastics. Also the fear tactics got tiring
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#22
Aside from the sheer absurdity of the biblical timeline and the fantasy that magic man is watching what every person is doing at all times, I have a son with autism. The challenges he faces to do the most simple things are cruel and inhumane. There is no intelligent design behind any of this.
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#23
Honestly the terrorism, the greed and religious hypocrisy that comes from people who follow it made me an atheist/agnostic for a long time add to the fact that when your God commands you to kill Jews and non believers it makes it more of a cult than a religion eventually I discovered Hinduism which worked for me personally. So technically I’m still not sure about God but I love the religion, the practices and the easy going nature of the religion, Buddhism is pretty nice too.
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#24
I went to a church of England school, which involves singing hymns, prayers etc. Pretty standard for primary school age kids. I was talking to another girl about religion and she said ‘I’m an atheist’. I asked her what it was and she explained that she didn’t believe in god. I was mindblown, I didn’t even know that was an option, but it immediately made sense to me in a way Christianity never did.
My parents never spoke about religion much or went to church, but I went home to tell them my new discovery and they both just laughed and admitted they don’t believe in god either. I have a few atheist family members too, I learnt my grandmother, now 93, doesn’t believe in god, and my Grandad on the other side who passed a few years ago.
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#25
MendelOfGrendel said:
Reading.
ctgreeves11 added:
Same here, I started reading the bible during lockdown and found a load of nasty s**t which basically convinced me that I didn’t really like what christianity stood for so i decided to stop believing.
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#26
How it handled the most basic questions (usually by avoiding them or calling people rude for asking). That and the double standards.
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#27
My grandma died when I was 11. She was the most religious person I’ve known, she made us pray all the time and scolded us when we didn’t go to church with her.
She got lung cancer and died after surgery. I prayed to god like she taught me when she was in the hospital, and when the news came out that she was dead, I felt a betrayal as never before.
I felt let down. I had prayed like I was supposed to, did everything she asked me to do for god. And he didn’t save her.
Now that I’m older I know that my parents didn’t communicate the severity with me as they should have. They knew it was a major surgery with a small percentage that she would survive. But I didn’t. I thought she would get help there and be back in time for the next sunday service. This all lead to me loosing the simple faith a child has, and I’m an agnostic now.
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#28
I couldn’t be bothered to get up on Sunday mornings and slowly learning about the seedy s**t Catholic priests get up to behind closed doors
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#29
maturity, it is clearly all BS
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#30
The overly religious people (extremists) and what they do claiming that it is what God would want.
Also, the fact that the main religions do not afford a thought that God can…change. I mean, Christians, Muslims and Jews (pretty sure that goes for Hindus and Shintoists, too) are pretty proud of following the traditions set up thousands of years ago. But people change, cultures change, attitudes to various aspects of life change. Why do people deny that a God can change, too? That it can now feel cringe towards the things it “demanded” earlier?
When I was a teenager I liked brutal videogames, gory fatalities of Mortal Kombat, cynical comic plots like the Watchmen (probably would have loved The Boys tv show if it aired back then), heavy music like Death Metal or the “screaming” aggressive albums of Marilyn Manson. Now I recall this time with cringe because my tastes changed. Now I like softer music, pixel roguelites and kinder movie/tv/comic plots where the good guys win and Naruto Therapy works, can’t stand gory games. So what if God feels something similar? “Yeah, I killed the residents of Sodom and Gomorrah, killed the Egyptian babies, still feel ashamed, or ordered to sacrifice sheep on Kurban Bayram, but sheesh it was so long ago dudes, why are you still doing it?”.
Few people are proud that they are following ancient social traditions like slavery or racism, that are outdated. Few people are proud to still use the vastly outdated tools. But too many people are proud that their worship is almost the same as it was hundreds of years ago.
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#31
White people and Christianity, once I realized what we consider Christianity in the United States is an aggregated, filtered/edited version of the religion and it’s history in support/promotion of white power structures I was done. Seeing Judaism used to subjugate the Palestinian people and steal their land to create an apartheid state.
I want to believe in this concept of divine design and lines that lead thru all creation however humans have shown they will use this sense of order to control behavior and beliefs.
Personally I’m good on religion, read too much to go backwards…
Still respect the idea of trying to understand how we all got here, mostly thru science but there’s still that unknown “magic” to creation.
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