“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

Three decades after the release of the bestseller ‘Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus,’ the debate over how and why men and women are different from each other and what that means for their roles in society is far from settled.

However, a survey by the Pew Research Center found that majorities of Americans say they are different in their physical abilities, their personal interests, their approach to parenting, and the way they express their feelings.

Reddit user u/Diligent-Log6805 decided to explore the relationship between these two sexes from a male perspective and made a post on the platform, asking: “Guys, what do women do that give you the ick?” Immediately, the answers started pouring in.

#1

Denigrating and emasculating men who show emotions. It’s honestly one of the most f****d up things anyone can do to another person.

Also, using a man’s kids as pawns in disputes, like cutting off visitation because you’re mad at him. Don’t f*****g do that, it’s just cruel to the kids.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#2

Refer to themselves as a boss b***h, queen, princess, or baddie.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#3

Hilariously fake eyelashes

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#4

The f*****g testing.

I appreciate that you have been in previous relationships where someone lied and/or cheated on you but don’t spend your entire single life trying to catch me in some lie so you can have your self fulfilling prophecy that all men are liars.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#5

Duckface. It’s 2023. Duckface was cringe 15 years ago but some women are STILL doing it.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#6

When they think a toxic trait of theirs is cute/quirky. There’s a big difference between being blunt in a respectful way and being a b***h.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#7

Baby voice

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#8

In Scotland. Obvious fake tan and over done makeup. You’re in f*****g Glasgow not madrid

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#9

This girl said ‘sowwie’ to me trying to be cute, and I instantly lost interest in her.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#10

Loudly empathizing with every cause and group on the planet but treating people in their personal lives like trash.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#11

Littering, Wasting food, Being very materialistic

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#12

If they act entitled, no one wants to be drained like that

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#13

silent treatment, I’ve hated it for the longest time, when you do something wrong and you try to apologize and they say nothing is even worse, just hurtful.

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#14

Be super clingy, not have a life outside of the relationship, and baby talk when trying to be cute.

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#15

Saying dumb s**t like “ as a MAN why are you taking care of yourself?” Or “ as a MAN your house shouldn’t be so clean”. Like sorry for not being a tramp.

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#16

One time an ex screamed at her 2 year old nephew. Instantly unattractive

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#17

Over-the-top solipsism. That whole “I don’t perceive it that way, therefore you perceiving it that way cannot be valid” mindset.

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#18

Call themselves fat in front of ppl who are fatter

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#19

I saw a cute girl on a treadmill at the gym sneeze 4 times and not attempt to cover her mouth once. Absolutely disgusted me

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#20

Lie/do something hurtful, then play victim so you end up comforting them for what they did even tho you wanna cry Lol

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#21

Confusing confidence with being inconsiderate.

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#22

Probably if a woman constantly texts me what I’m doing every 30 mins. Can’t stand when they say “wyd”. That’s some high school s**t right there

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#23

Mentioning their ex constantly

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#24

I think not taking accountability is the biggest one.
You’ve messed up/were rude/incorrect/whatever, but just doubling down and never apologising or admitting fault is so unattractive. Just own it and apologise like a grown up.
“I’m sorry but…” etc.

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#25

One for when you’re in a relationship:

When you’re with friends and they become distinctly less pleasant to you than when you’re alone, like making fun of you and making jokes at your expense which they normally would not make. Have had it in more than one relationship.
Like… what is that about?

“The Ick”: 30 Things Women Do That Make Them Less Attractive To Guys

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#26

Wipe makeup off using a bath towel

That unsettling brown stain… uggggggh

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#27

Casual hate, just chill why are you so upset about everything

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#28

always talk about themselves and never ask you anything at all so the entire thing just revolves around her, not even like how was your day or are you ok, just always about them and the attention

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#29

Lie about how they feel

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#30

Cleaning my wife’s hair out of the drains grosses me out to the point where I gag. Idk why. I had no problem with other gross things. I can even clean up my dogs vomit with little to no gagging.

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