29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

Ever met someone who makes you wonder if they grew up in a cave? Whether they display a lack of manners, an extreme sense of entitlement, or an acute refusal to be held accountable for their actions, it’s obvious they have zero home training.

Somebody asked the internet, “What’s a sign someone definitely wasn’t raised right?” and netizens were only too happy to share their opinions. Here’s our collection of some of the biggest red flags that scream poor parenting

More info: Reddit

#1

Poor treatment of animals or using pets as accessories and not family members.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#2

Not treating customer service staff well.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#3

When they’re unable to admit they are wrong or made a mistake.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#4

Littering.

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#5

Making fun of someone for something they can’t control.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#6

People who use their phone on speaker in public, or watch videos without headphones/earbuds.

Also people who don’t wash their hands after using the bathroom. WTAF.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#7

Zero civic-mindedness. It costs 0$ to throw your litter in the bin, refrain from parking in disabled bays, return your cart after use, stand and wait in line and the list goes on. If you can’t even teach your kid which side of an escalator to stand on, you probably didn’t teach your kid much else.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#8

Someone who won’t even listen to someone who has a different opinion, just immediately yells and says they’re wrong and not even try to see it from a different perspective. Usually someone who lacks empathy as well.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#9

They’re unaware of people in their immediate vicinity. A variation on spatial awareness or situational awareness as it relates to spaces where people gather.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#10

They expect never to be uncomfortable. Discomfort of any kind is a frightening or foreign concept to them.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#11

They don’t realize what’s normal in a relationship, because they assume the relationship their parents had was normal.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#12

Zero respect for others’ time.

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#13

Unprovoked Violence.

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#14

When the happiness of the person is making fun of others.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#15

No manners.

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#16

People who feel the need to comment on others appearance.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#17

Talk and act with no respect or consideration for other people.

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#18

Never take any accountability for their actions.

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#19

They lack empathy and kindness.

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#20

Narcissism. This is learned behavior from a parent that had a personality disorder.

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#21

They never tell the truth, gaslight you, use everyone one as an object, no respect of boundaries, think of women as objects for there personal pleasure, maid, chef etc. blame you for everything.

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#22

Entitlement.

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#23

Stealing. I was friend with a girl at 19-20. She was an only child, her parents had both good wages and provided all she needed. She would steal just because she had the opportunity to do so: a bike left with its keys on it (when we left a party), or an iPhone that a drunk person lost. I was so mad at her. Why do you need to steal that instead of just be good to these strangers?? Ffs.

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#24

They are super passive-aggressive.

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#25

Won’t put their shopping cart in the return.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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#26

They neither have any boundaries nor will they respect anyone else’s.

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#27

They think you can just eat all the food in the cupboard without replacing it themselves. god d**n rich pieces of s**t thinking the food comes from the sky.

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#28

Not holding open a door for the person right behind you.

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#29

They’re anxious that you’ll abandon them, or will suddenly hate them one day without explanation.

29 Red Flags That Someone Really Wasn’t Raised To Be A Good Person

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