“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

Good relationships often need some compromise here and there, but if one feels the need to issue ultimatums, something has probably gone wrong. A man asked the internet if he would be wrong to issue his wife an ultimatum over her recent weight gain.

She’d gotten a bit heavier after childbirth, but he claimed that it was not healthy and he couldn’t take it anymore. Netizens debated the question, some called him out, others gave suggestions and he discussed his thoughts in the comments. Later, after the internet shared all of their thoughts, he posted an update.

One has to be careful when issuing an ultimatum in a relationship

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

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But one man didn’t know what to do about his wife’s recent weight gain

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

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“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

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He chatted with some readers

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

Commenters tried to give some advice

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

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A few months later, he posted an update

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

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“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

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He clarified some points in the comments

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain

Readers had a few more ideas

“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain
“I’m Considering Leaving”: A Husband Struggles To Accept His Wife’s Weight Gain