Even the best parents don’t always agree with each other and sometimes have completely differing opinions on how they should take care of their kids. This type of situation can either lead to a fruitful discussion and compromise or end in conflict.
This is what happened with one couple when the woman went out grocery shopping, only to return and find her toddler covered in scribbles. She was livid when she learned it was because her husband had gone out to mow the lawn and left their 8-year-old in charge of the little one.
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Young children can look after their siblings for a little while, but it’s also important for a parent to be around to help them in case anything goes wrong
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The poster shared that she had gone to the shop for only 15 minutes and left her husband to look after the children
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When the woman returned home, she was shocked because her 16-month-old was completely covered in scribbles that her 8-year-old had made
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The poster’s husband decided to mow the lawn and felt that it was okay to leave their 8-year-old to babysit her sibling, which made the woman furious
Parents can’t be around their kids all the time, and they also need a few breaks now and then. It seems like the poster’s husband wanted just that. He decided to tackle his chores and get a bit of quiet by going outside and mowing the lawn, and he felt that their 8-year-old daughter would be able to look after the toddler with ease.
When it comes to babysitting, most parents agree that it’s only after their kid becomes a tween that they might be able to handle such a responsibility. After all, children need to be confident and trustworthy enough to show that they can manage such a situation, especially if their parents are out. If the adults are in the vicinity, it might be a more casual babysitting set-up.
Clearly, the man felt that since he was just outside, it wasn’t such a big deal for his young daughter to look after her sibling. What he didn’t account for was the 8-year-old’s playfulness and that she’d use a pen to scribble all over the little one. The girl later tried to justify her actions by saying that she was “playing schools.”
Although the OP just brushed off her daughter’s actions, many netizens pointed out that it was concerning that the little girl would draw all over the toddler. In situations like this, it’s important for parents to discipline their child by explaining the effect of their negative actions and giving them clear consequences to deal with.
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The poster took out her anger on her husband, but he just laughed the situation off and didn’t feel like it was such a big deal. She felt that anything could have gone wrong in the few minutes that he was outside. The toddler could have choked or gotten injured, even though nothing untoward had actually happened.
Sometimes, couples have different parenting styles and ways of perceiving their children’s actions, and this can cause conflict between them. When they can’t agree on how to handle the situation or how to parent their kids, it might be helpful to discuss this with objective family members or even seek professional support.
The woman probably felt like her husband wasn’t taking her point of view seriously, and that’s also what added to her frustration. Even though she had just gone out for 15 minutes, she had expected her partner to keep a watchful eye on the kids. So, to see that he had gone outside must have worried her.
Most folks felt that the woman was making a mountain out of a molehill and that she had no reason to fret so much since her husband was just in the garden. They were more concerned about the girl’s behavior and felt that something needed to be done about that.
Whose side are you on in this situation? Do share your honest thoughts in the comments below.
People told the woman that she was overreacting and that her 8-year-old wasn’t that well-behaved and needed to be disciplined
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