Hey Pandas, What Are Things That Sound Like Compliments But Are Actually Insults? (Closed)

What are some things that sound like compliments but are actually insults?

#1

“your really good at doing outside jobs.” these is not something i like hearing especially caus im mexican

#2

“You look nice today!”

This can be taken as a compliment and/or an insult.

#3

“wow you lost a lot of weight! you look so much more handsome!”

#4

“I hope your day is as pleasant as you are!”

#5

You sounded like a guy over the phone. This is insulting because I am a woman.

#6

I come from a country with a large number of different ethnicities and I often get told “You don’t look like you’re…(insert ethnicity here), You’re too pretty”.

Just in case you’re wondering I am Venda from South Africa.