Hey Pandas, Elmo The Therapist Is Here To Answer Any Questions (Closed)

Whether it’s a hard one or an easy one, Elmo will answer anyone. Elmo: I will be helping and I will give my best advice. If you don’t like it, please don’t downvote. Just let me know. (Please don’t share your opinion if it’s not your submission. You can but it has to be in the comments at the bottom of the page where you can share your experience.) Thank you!

#1

I posted this in other places but I can’t get the guts to give a letter to my parents telling them I’ve been suicidal in the past. I don’t know if I should tell my brother first or something. I tried scaring myself into doing ut but it didn’t work like it usually does. I really just need someone to tell me to get myself together and just do it.

#2

How do you get rid of a toxic friend?

#3

Is hitting valid self harm and is it still valid if you don’t want to die?

#4

when is Mark’s funeral(remember hes dead)

#5

I have violent thoughts, but would never harm anyone. I used to be suicidal but not anymore. And I feel stressed a bit.

#6

Ok, so I could really use some advice on this.
I have seven outdoor cats and we live a little under an hour away from the closest vet. Because we have so many cats, vet trips are very expensive, and they are also outdoor cats we have to pick carefully when to take them to the vet. This means that times most people would take their pets to the vet we didn’t. I’m in a difficult situation right now because I have a cat who was overweight and then suddenly lost a ton of weight. She also hasn’t been eating as much and acts like she constantly has to go to the bathroom, but I don’t think that she actually does every time. I’m indecisive because all the times we’ve taken cats to the vet before it was something obvious and it was easy to tell that they were hurting. The big question is do I take her to the vet and risk not being able to do anything or finding out that I didn’t need to take her? Is it worth it to take her, or would she be happier not going?

#7

i want to talk with my family. but everytime i do they just insult me, (the way i smell mostly) my taste in music, what i do, my personalty, i may not have a very good personalty yet i still dont want them insulting me. i feel so dejected. i feel so stressed, i wish someone would just say they dont care about me one more time so i can just have a good reason to leave it all behind.

#8

how do you feel with upsetting thoughts? like i’m talking disturbing/depressing thoughts.

#9

My friends ignoring me because I got mad at her for not respecting my privacy and telling my mom my secret that I’m suicidal, and now all my friends are ignoring me what do i dooo

#10

I’m 77.4 pounds, 13, and 5ft. Aka disgusting. I have to lose 7.4 lbs by summer and I don’t know if I can.