A lot of us have had the misfortune of dealing with a self-proclaimed “nice guy.” You know the type: someone who makes a big point of being kind and respectful, then gets very annoyed when all that supposed niceness doesn’t earn them the attention they were hoping for. Of course, that particular attitude isn’t exclusive to men.
The r/Nicegirls subreddit collects examples of women showing a similar mix of entitlement and unrealistic expectations, often when dating or dealing with relationships. We’ve rounded up some of the posts shared there below, so scroll down to read them and see what you make of it.
#1 Mad At Me For Sleeping
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#2 She Is 41 Btw
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#3 I Don’t Care Anymore. Useless Beggars
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#4 I Asked If She Would Split The $350 Sushi Dinner She Wanted For The First Date…
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#5 Matched With Her, Didn’t Respond Immediately, And She Sent This
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#6 That’s A First
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#7 The Bullet That Dodged Itself
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#8 If Your Parents Are Divorced… Out
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#9 For Your Viewing Pleasure
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#10 Did I Say Something Wrong Here?
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#11 She Preaches Love And Kindness, Then Calls Me Meaningless For Not Worshiping Her God
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#12 I Dated This Woman For 9 Days. The Selfishness She Speaks Of Was My Monthly Date Budget Being “Only” $400
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#13 Girl Completely Flips Out On Me For Asking To Split The Bill At Nobu
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#14 I’m Sure He Fumbled
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#15 Can’t Make This Up
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#16 She Regularly Posts Trash Like This On Her Story, With A Good Combination Of “Men Are Trash” + “Why Am I Single “
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#17 Was Her Opening Message Btw
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#18 I Hate Dating Htx Girls
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#19 Does This Profile Count? LOL
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#20 Girl Wants Me To Join Her Discord Right As We Start Talking. Flips Out When I Say No
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#21 I Cant Believe She Posted This And Thought She Was In The Right
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#22 All Because I Didnt Respond For 2 Hours
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#23 Am I Crazy Here?
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#24 Just Got Her Number An Hour Ago And We Haven’t Talked And Got To Know Each Other At All
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#25 Messaging On Work Number After I Blocked Her
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#26 Finally Found The One
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#27 Not The First Time I’ve Come Across “I’ll Probably Hurt Your Feelings”
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#28 Welp, It Finally Happened
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#29 This Isn’t A Dating Bio, It’s A Hostage Agreement
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#30 Just Your Normal 1st Chat Questions
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#31 I Simply Respected Her Rejection
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#32 Jesus, What Did I Do Wrong?
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#33 Dating Is Exhausting
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#34 Is It Time To Breakup With My Girlfriend?
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#35 I Kindly Told Her In Person I Wasn’t Romantically Interested After 1st Date
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#36 She Told Me She Didn’t Care About Money But Quality Time. I Thought She Was A Good Catch Until…
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#37 Woman Freaked Out When I Wouldn’t Give Her $200
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#38 That Was An Easy Left Swipe For The “Tough Girl”
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#39 Greet With The Wrong Name? Must Be Gay
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#40 Sometimes You Just Gotta Dish It Back
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#41 Idk You Tell Me
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#42 Why Even Ask What I’m Looking For If You Assume I’m Immediately Lying?
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#43 Known Each Other For A Week With Dry Convos To Boot
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#44 Brotherrr, I Was Just Making Fun Of Myself
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#45 Suggested A Date, Got A Lecture
I suggested we meet for drinks somewhere with a view, or check out a new exhibit at a museum that looked interesting. She asked if we could get coffee the following week. Cool, that works. When I followed up to set up the date, she sent this. What’s really funny is that I don’t drink alcohol either, it’s right there on my dating profile.
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#46 Was Having A Nice Chat About Our Travels And Then I Asked Her Out In A “Non-Assertive” Way
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#47 The Warmth Exudes From This Beautiful Soul
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#48 20 Minutes Is Too Long For A Response Apparently
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#49 Literally Nothing I Can Say Except That’s Crazy
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#50 I Come Across Some Of The Best (Worst) Profiles
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#51 Risky First Message. Glad She Didn’t Overreact
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#52 This Is What Peak Delusion Looks Like
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#53 When Your Dating Bio Hands Men A Job Description
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#54 This Girl Added Me On Instagram Randomly. I’ve Known Her For About A Week, And Told Her Today I’d Be Busy (She Didn’t Acknowledge It) And Because I Wasn’t Responding, Had This To Say
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#55 Taking A Week To Respond Just To Be Rude Is A Different Level Of Audacity
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#56 “My Boyfriend Broke Up With Me Because I Sa Him. Wtf???”
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#57 Her Answer After Months Of Ghosting Me
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#58 10 Min Girl
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