Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

Raising children is hard. And even when you do your best, things don’t always turn out the way you hoped.

One dad went to Reddit to admit something he’s ashamed to say out loud: he isn’t proud of any of his five children. He says he poured everything he could into them, from education to hobbies, trying to help them grow into independent, ambitious adults. But in his eyes, none of them lived up to what he imagined, and now he blames himself, calling himself a failure as a father.

Read his confession below.

The man went online to get a confession off his chest

Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

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He has five children, but isn’t proud of how any of them turned out

Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

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Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

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Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

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Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

He later returned to address the reaction to his post

Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

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Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes

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Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes
Dad Claims He Did Everything He Could For His Children, But All 5 Of Them Are Failures In His Eyes