It’s funny how weddings, which are supposed to be joyous occasions, can spark so much unnecessary drama. Especially when it comes to inviting close family or just ending up disappointed because someone bailed, it can all be a big hassle for everyone.
This wedding also saw a lot of drama after the bridal couple announced that it’s child-free. The groom’s brother planned to attend it, but his wife couldn’t as she had to look after their two kids. However, they were extremely shocked by the backlash they faced because of this decision. Here’s how it went down…
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It’s funny how families are mostly the root of any drama that happens during weddings
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The poster’s brother-in-law is getting married in a different country, so they planned to turn it into a family vacation with their two kids
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However, they were suddenly informed that it’s going to be child-free, so the poster decided to stay back, but this offended her in-laws
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Her mother-in-law called her husband and said he was “stingy,” and this made things worse, as it sparked an argument between the couple
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Soon, they learned that she was the one who was causing all the trouble, as the poster’s husband spoke with his brother, who understood their situation
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The poster is upset with her in-laws for creating unnecessary drama, and also feels that their relationship won’t be the same with the bridal couple
For those who enjoy soap operas, this story will surely wind you up, considering all the drama it has. It all started when the original poster’s (OP) brother-in-law decided to get married. To travel to the country where they live takes eight hours, so OP and her husband planned to make a family vacation out of it with their two kids, and would have to pay £11,000 for the whole trip.
Imagine being willing to spend that much money and suddenly getting a call that the wedding is child-free. Of course, they were disheartened as all of them could no longer go, as in the UK, a nanny can cost anywhere between £10-£16 per hour. OP felt that it would be too much; besides, they weren’t comfortable leaving their 1-year-old and 3-year-old with a stranger for so long.
Alas, the couple decided that only the groom’s brother would travel there for the long weekend, while the poster would stay back with the kids. That didn’t go down so well with his brother and mom, as they soon received a long call from her. Apparently, she was under the impression that she was involved in all this, even when OP’s husband assured her that she wasn’t.
The poster tells us that her mother-in-law is an attention-seeker, so that’s hardly surprising. Experts claim, “Attention-seeking behavior that happens frequently may be manipulative or passive-aggressive and can push people away, strain relationships, or ruin them altogether.” That’s exactly what happened here as she called OP’s husband “stingy” and it got under his skin, leaving him confused.
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The poster gave us an update that her husband was really disturbed by this, so she had a long chat with him to comfort him. However, this is where the twist in the tale comes in because she also told us that it was her mother-in-law who was pulling the strings! Apparently, her brother-in-law understood that they both couldn’t come, but it was his mother who wanted to brew up trouble.
In fact, this also sparked a heated discussion between the poster and her husband as she tried to tell him how she felt hurt because of the in-laws’ dramatic behavior. However, he snapped at her that he was “sick of talking about it.” Now, we all know that couples may fight because of each other’s families, but almost 75% report having problems with an in-law.
That’s why experts always warn that couples should be a team and together set up clear boundaries against their in-laws. Netizens also said that in the end, OP and her husband get to decide who goes to the wedding, no matter what his problematic family has to say. Another issue that arose is that if the man goes to the event, he also has to pay an additional $650 for staying at the venue.
Seems like this wedding is almost emotionally and financially draining the couple dry. The last time the poster commented, she mentioned that, as it was too much of a headache, they had pressed pause on discussing it. Since there’s still a lot of time before the event, they are going to figure things out later. Honestly, all these theatrics would drive anyone crazy, right?
What would you do if you were in the poster’s shoes? Let us know your thoughts in the comments below!
After the poster’s updates, netizens felt that her in-laws had no sense of boundaries and were demanding something very unfair from the couple
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