This post is personal to me because it involves marriage, so I’ll just get right to it. For a while now, people have been fascinated by the relationship between Donald and Melania Trump. There’s been a ton of speculation that Trump treats Melania poorly, even to the point where psychologists are speculating that she’s extremely afraid of him. The world has been fascinated by Donald and Melania Trump’s relationship ever since footage surfaced of Melania making a face while her husband was being sworn in as president.. Is she happy? Are they in love? Is their marriage genuine? Unclear, but a new report suggests they no longer sleep in the same room.
P.S. this is the clip that freaked people out. Watch Melania’s facial transition as soon as Trump looks the other way.
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“They have separate bedrooms. They never spend the night together-ever,” one source tells Us Weekly, while another says they do sleep in the same room-just not in the same bed. Either way it doesn’t matter because we know for a fact that Melania spends a ton of time in NYC away from her husband.
I’m not here to speculate on whether or not this relationship is abusive. I simply want to address the sleeping in the same bed or room situation. I’ve been with my wife for 13 years, and married for 8. The only nights I’ve ever slept in a different bed than my wife is when we’re in completely different areas of the country or region for the whole night. In other words, if we’re in the same building, we’re sleeping in the same bed. In fact if I’m not in the same bed with my wife I even feel a little uncomfortable. And my wife feels the same way. I’m not saying all couples are like this but sleeping in different beds is NOT a good sign.
There’s only one situation where I would sleep in a separate room from my wife, and I’ve been completely up front with her about it. If she were a super snorer and I couldn’t get any sleep I would consider it. Even she herself admitted that she would be OK with that. Sleep is extremely important to me and she understands that. The point is we have a great relationship and want to make each other happy, so whatever has to be done, is done. Personally I think that it all starts from an emotional and physical connection between two people. Obviously communication is key but you need to at least have the most basic and primal connections covered to be in a good relationship. I’m no doctor, but if I’m a betting man I’d say Donald and Melania have none of these.
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