Have you ever found yourself in a situation where someone was acting inappropriate, but no one besides you didn’t seem to notice? And you didn’t say anything just because you felt as if it would just make everything worse? This TikTok user @nayaaford asked her followers to share what is something that people find normal or even idealised when it is an example of toxic behaviour. In her video that has 49.6k likes and almost 3.5k comments, she pointed out that one of the examples of toxic behaviour is wanting a “significant other” who is unfriendly and even mean to other people just because this would mean that they are not going to cheat.
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#1
Minimizing your own experience by saying “others have it way worse than you”. No. My feelings are valid regardless of how worse it could be.
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#2
Telling little girls “if hes being mean to you it means he likes you”… no.. just no
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#3
Giving men glory for doing all the normal things women do..ie: cleaning, cooking, caring for their own kids, grocery shopping, etc
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#4
People bragging that they are “brutally honest”. You can be honest without being Brutal.
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#5
Don’t come at me but moms who excessively drink wine to put up with their kids. you’ll never convince me it’s ok .
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#6
OCD. It’s not trendy it’s an illness.
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#7
Giving money to homeless on YouTube. Toxic. You don’t need other people to see you doing charitable things for it to be worth doing.
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#8
Toxic positivity… let people feel
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#9
They use their zodiac sign to justify their actions and anger issues.
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#10
Adhd- just because you were late a few times and got distracted by your friends in class doesn’t mean you have it. It’s not fun and quirky.
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#11
Being each other’s “everything”. Nah y’all both need lives, family, and friends
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#12
“Push yourself till it hurts” when it comes to work, school, physical activities. I don’t get paid enough to go over my physical limits.
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#13
Treating trauma/traumatic events as a competition.
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#14
When the current gfs hate their boyfriends ex’s for no other reason but the fact they dated him.
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#15
Mother in law’s being abusive towards their son mates it’s normal in so many cultures and it’s NEVER OKAY
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#16
Men not taking care of their children because they have a new woman in their life
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#17
The whole “respect your elders” where I agree, you should show respect but there is a lot of disrespectful elderly and people in general who don’t
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#18
But we got a baby together so we gotta stay together
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#19
Overprotective partners – your partner should trust your judgment enough to let you stand up for yourself or ask for their help when it’s needed
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#20
Hustle culture for me. Would rather have a good paying 9-5 than 3 entrepreneural “hustles”
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#21
People romanticise “being crazy” in relationships. “Yeah she’s so crazy, she deleted every girl off my Facebook, she’s so crazy I love her though
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#22
Friendzoning! setting boundaries in friendships should be okay. no one owes you getting into a relationship
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#23
Going through your partners phone
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#24
Possessive partners
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#25
The ‘psycho’ girlfriend. There’s a difference between boundaries and control/abuse
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#26
The concept of forgiveness nowadays is just “oh yeah they hurt you and u prob have trauma u will deal with forever but just forgive and move on” um no
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#27
When people talk about beating there kids or scaring there kids
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#28
I don’t know if this is toxic but people think that because two people have been together for years their relationship is perfect and healthy.
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#29
Any beauty standards
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#30
Couples that take pride in being each other’s only friends and spend ALL their time together. It’s good to be separate from your partner sometimes
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