“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

As our world seems to be taking steps back from progressive ideals, the LGBTQ+ community needs allies more than ever. As of 2024, nearly one in 10 Americans identified as LGBTQ+, yet according to a 2025 Pew survey, 39% of Americans think that homosexuality is “morally wrong.”

Many bigoted and hateful people voice their opinions loud and proud without shame, but some fail spectacularly. In fact, their hatred sometimes has the opposite effect: whether they misidentify a trans person, get lost in queer terminology, or just generally don’t know what they’re talking about.

Then they end up being accidental allies and maybe even get featured in the “Accidental Ally” community on Reddit. Check out these posts about the times hatred against the LGBTQ+ community backfired and bigots ended up showing support.

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#1 The Model Is Hunter Schafer, A Transgender Woman

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#2 Whoops

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#3 Technically Correct?

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#4 Bathrooms Are For How You Identify

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#5 Jk Rowling Accidentally Affirms Pre-Transition Trans People

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#6 What A Trailblazer

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#7 Not Sure If This Is An Accidental Allyship But It Felt Like It Was

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#8 The Devil Is So Nice Y’all!!!

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#9 He Really Tried His Best

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#10 The Classic One

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#11 💯💯💯

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#12 Transgender For Everybody!

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#13 Trans Men Are Not Women

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#14 He’s Not Wrong 🤷🏼‍♀️

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#15 Trans Affirming Misogyny

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#16 Step 1: Post This In Your Transphobic Circle Of Choice. And Wait For Them To Concur🎣 Step 2: Congratulate Them Agreeing Trans Women Are Women And Trans Men, Men!🏳️‍⚧️

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#17 Gender Affirming Hate Comment Left On My Video

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#18 The Dept Of ~~defense~~ War Is An Ally, They Just Didn’t Know It Yet!

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#19 Accidental Enby 🥰

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#20 Congratulations On Coming Out Though

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#21 I’m Non-Binary

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#22 What A Bummer

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#23 Accidental S**tpost

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#24 Even When It’s Spelled Out For Them, They Still Don’t Get It

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#25 They’re Cisvestigating Now

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#26 Well Done Sweetie

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#27 Blessed Typo

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#28 This Fried Me

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#29 Woah I Did Not Know That Nancy Mace Is Trans

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#30 You Are Correct, Thank You

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#31 Hungary Banned Gender

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#32 Yes Teach Your Daughters Important Skills Too!

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#33 Oustanding Job

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#34 Yes, I Am “Literally A Guy”

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#35 Dad Got Me Accidentally Trans Sweater

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#36 Elon Musk Didn’t Give Birth To His Daughter Guys…

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#37 Trans Men Are Men, It’s Indisputable 🔥

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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#38 Bigot Calls Trans Woman A Woman

“I’m Not Cis, You Are”: 38 Times Ignorance Took A Turn And Became Accidental LGBTQ+ Allyship

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