Sometimes, you see a couple and just know they’re perfect together. It’s that effortless connection, the way they laugh at each other’s jokes, or just the way they look at one another. And it makes you wonder, how did they know they had found the one? Well, today, we’re diving into exactly that!
Someone on TikTok asked, “Women who are happily married, when did you know your husband was the one?” And the internet delivered—with a whopping 26.8 thousand replies filled with sweet, unexpected, and downright heart-melting moments. Keep reading to see what these women had to say!
#1
On our first date he stopped on the freeway to help a kitten when he got back in the car I said “wow you must really like cats!” He said “actually no I’m allergic but if I can help I do” he’s the most generous loving person I’ve ever met. 💕
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#2
When my abusive dad was yelling at me and he took my hand walked out of the house with me and said “I will never let him speak to you like that ever again”
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#3
Instead of worrying about him cheating, you’re worried about him dying.
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#4
He tried to find my cat and looked under every car in the neighborhood and sent me photos “is she luna” all night long (imagine how many cats are in İstanbul)
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#5
I felt at peace every time i saw him. No stress, no anxiety, no butterflies.
#6
When my dad was fighting for his life with neuro cancer my husband (boyfriend of only 3 months at the time) sat outside in the waiting room for hours everyday to support us during our worst days ❤️🩹
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#7
I asked myself a question “do i want my kid to have a father like him?, do i want my daughter to have a partner like him? Do i want to have a son like him?” The answer is absolutely Yes.
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#8
He adopted my down syndrome little sister after my parents passed away.
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#9
I noticed myself becoming softer because I felt safer, seen, heard, cared for, there was more laughter, dancing, creating, praying and growing.
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#10
when he looked me in the eye and said “loving you isn’t hard, it’s a privilege” and i believed him. (13 years together 🥰)
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#11
When he never raised his voice when mad. 11 years, no yelling 🥺
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#12
He drove 18 hours to take me in a date, returned 5 times more. At the end of each one of his stays, he took me to the grocery store to stock up my fridge (i was a single mom)
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#13
After years of insomnia, I could actually sleep at night.
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#14
When his actions spoke louder than any words I’d ever been told before. He continuously kept showing up for me & loving me in ways I would have never thought to ask for💌 it will feel RIGHT I promise
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#15
i got covid and he came over in a hazmat suit with all my fave food and gifts, took care of me all night and cleaned my room 😭
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#16
When I met him he was pretty deep with alcohol, I never asked him to stop drinking or to change anything. He stopped drinking and changed everything to be the best version of himself. He’s amazing
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#17
When I met his friends, family and colleages and everyone knew everything about me, it felt like I was immediately part of them 😭
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#18
He’d buy food for EACH homeless person we encountered & talked to them. He also helped EVERY INSECT AND ANIMAL in the streets. Literally put a worm on the side of the street so no one would step on it
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#19
peace. just like that. he’s making my life easier, happier. no drama, no stress, no crying myself to sleep. just peace 💗
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#20
When I met him, he felt like home. I felt like I was being embraced by the arms of my loving parents.. idk how to explain it.
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#21
If I cough in the middle of the night he wakes and pats my back and asks if I’m okay. He never remembers, it’s just muscle memory 🥹
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#22
When i had a deep sense of confidence that no matter what, he wasn’t going anywhere. That deep feeling of security. I had never felt that before.
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#23
Not my story, but my client said: “I looked at him & had this feeling that I knew I wanted our future daughter to know what it feels like to be loved by him & our son to be raised by him” 😭
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#24
I never asked, never begged. He never made me feel stressed or questioned. He is patient with me and loves me the way I am. He gave me the peace I had been dreaming of
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#25
Not married, but engaged. During the dating stage I never felt anxious waiting for a text back or scheduling. He made me feel so secure from the very beginning 🫶🏻
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#26
I saw a comment that said “I started to like pink again” and that is it. When I realized this guy was taking care of me in ways which allowed me to make time to tap into my femininity.
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#27
Peace. all of the answer is Peace.
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#28
When they care about your feelings more than anything and would sacrifice anything for you. They put in effort to meet your love language every day and want to protect you and provide. They apologize
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#29
I go to sleep every single night knowing ill be loved in the morning.
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#30
He planned thoughtful dates fourteen nights in a row after our first date. He said he didn’t want to give any other man a chance to see me. We’ve been together ever since.
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#31
When I started to be completely vulnerable and let my guard down on all topics and realized he still loved me and maybe loved me even more for being so honest!
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#32
I didn’t have to beg for bare minimum. He is always intentional & says things like “how can I take the load of off you.” 🥹 in our talking stage he was never disingenuous & always followed through.
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#33
Is ur nervous system stable around him? Thats the answer ✨
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#34
No bad gut feeling. No anxiety. No back and forth. It just logically, spiritually, and emotionally felt right
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#35
It’s when you meet them and you don’t really question if they are the one because the shoe just fits. You feel safe and they love you to the core of who you are. It’s a look on their face.
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#36
When I didn’t ever feel any fear or judgement telling him anything and everything.
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#37
It was immediate. Our first conversation felt like we time warped into another dimension where only the two of us existed and our souls aligned.
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#38
I was giving him a spa night and was giving him a facial. While I was massaging his face he started bawling and said he never thought God would bless him so much and he was so grateful✨
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#39
When i accidentally opened his notes app and saw two years worth of notes of things he loved about me & of all the good memories he had of him & my family. (We’re married & have a son now❤️)
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#40
When he made me realize that he was the first man to ever make me feel completely safe, loved, and truly happy. 5 years of unconditional love and everytime he walks in the door I feel peace🙏🏽🤍
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#41
He knew i struggled with some trust issues du to previous experience,toxic stories so he made me handle his phone during the first date and made me guess the passeword, it was my birthday from then❤️
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#42
On our first date. He was so soft spoken but made me laugh so much. I felt an overwhelming amount of contentment and calmness I had ever felt. I texted my sisters “Omg guys I found my husband”
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#43
When he quieted everything outside the moment he wrapped his arms around me.
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#44
As someone who is always very anxious and pessimistic; everything about him was easy going, familiar, and safe 🥺
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#45
When we started dating, he woke up at 5am, left house at 5:45, so he could arrive at my house at 6:30 and sat outside and waited me till whenever I want (7 or 7:15) so he could drive me to work 😌
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#46
When we had a tough time he said “don’t worry, i’ll make everything possible for you, just trust me.”
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#47
i become a girly girl, i used to be a boy in every relationship i had back then.
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#48
Since the day he came to my life he started taking the weight off my plate. Made life easy for me 🥺
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#49
the eyes chica, they never lie
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#50
When I heard him praying over me while he thought I was sleeping. I don’t even say such detailed prayers for myself.
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