Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

All healthy relationships are built on communication, but polyamory requires an even deeper level of honesty and transparency. In this story, shared online by a woman navigating a poly triad, that crucial communication was nowhere to be found.

When her husband suggested bringing another woman into their marriage, she reluctantly agreed just to keep from losing him. Over the next four years, she watched her husband’s girlfriend move in and have a child, all while quietly harboring her own growing resentment.

It wasn’t until she found out she was pregnant and was offered a promising career opportunity in another city that she finally faced the truth: she had never been happy with this arrangement.

Read the full story to find out what she did next, and what impact it had on her poly family.

When her husband suggested a polyamorous relationship, she reluctantly agreed

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

She soon found herself living with her husband, his girlfriend and their baby

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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The woman gave some more info in response to the comments

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

She took the internet’s advice and came back with an update on the situation

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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Here’s how the conversation unfolded in the comment section

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

In another update, the woman clarified some doubts and shared what exactly she did

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship

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There were mixed opinions, with many supporting her and some calling her out

Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship
Woman Makes A Drastic Life Decision After Getting Pregnant Opens Her Eyes About Her Poly Relationship